tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post8018047331120934943..comments2022-07-16T20:00:53.403-04:00Comments on Blanche Black: How to Train a ManBlanche Blackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comBlogger93125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-37232149444483912682021-07-05T19:16:23.760-04:002021-07-05T19:16:23.760-04:00Ms.Christina in your opinion, what are the benefit...Ms.Christina in your opinion, what are the benefits for woman to make her man practice semen retention. How this could improve her relationship and life. What are the benefits for man, and how it could improve relationship with his lady.Steve1https://www.blogger.com/profile/10767578121084642548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-13859903163775726642019-07-13T03:28:43.746-04:002019-07-13T03:28:43.746-04:00I agree with miss black I'm Jim and I wish I c...I agree with miss black I'm Jim and I wish I could submit to Miss black and be trained by her .I would be grateful .and it would be an ohner to serve her .after all we know how powerful the female is dont we gentleman.or shall I say in denial gentleman .we cant live or servive without them .miss Black please save me.5072089298Subjimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02336053125601119252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-18272353991771862822019-07-11T19:40:43.538-04:002019-07-11T19:40:43.538-04:00I agree I first was trained at age 11 by three old...I agree I first was trained at age 11 by three older women and it's ware I belonged ever scence its true women rule and we should all be trained at a young age pussy is the best thing on earth and men we'll do anything for it if properly trained and I believe thair would be no rape or abuce.in fact I wish I had a strict domanatrex.to train me hard core right now so I could do what men are born to do please a women I just don't know ware to look 507 208 9298 j Rochester MNSubjimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02336053125601119252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-86082029773601787362017-07-29T21:31:24.581-04:002017-07-29T21:31:24.581-04:00Anonymous,
For me it has been. Several of my past...Anonymous,<br /><br />For me it has been. Several of my past boyfriends wanted to wash my lingerie and underwear, and I let them do it for me when I was pleased with them. They were very manly and great in bed as well. I was happy because I know what its like to wash my own underwear and I'd rather give my boyfriend the chance to do it, if it makes him happy, and spend the time doing something else I really want to do. It doesn't matter what other people outside of the relationship think, as long as you and your partner understand each other.<br /><br />-Ms. ChristinaBlanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-71136776499044608442017-07-29T18:23:07.054-04:002017-07-29T18:23:07.054-04:00Wives wash,iron,clean ecc.Do you think it's no...Wives wash,iron,clean ecc.Do you think it's normal for husband to hand wash his wife's lingerie and underwear, is it a sigh of love and respect .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-50672654118196266002017-06-18T01:06:21.061-04:002017-06-18T01:06:21.061-04:00Hi,l think to prevent domestic abuse against women...Hi,l think to prevent domestic abuse against women, neglecting and disrespect against them men mist learn gentlemen's values and treat women like ladies.Men should learn how to court and please and adore women.In this this way they can give an example to other men and boys how to behave,serve and please ladies.Nowadays society lacks real gentleman. Men should be chivalrous and respect women during lovemaking.Women were abused by missionaries,who forced women to use only missionary position, in which is difficult for her to reach orgasm and enjoy intercourse.Indian guru Osho says that woman should always be on top, and from anatomicaly and spiritualy it is correct.Gentlemen should also practice semen retention in order to satisfy and pleasure lady.Tantra and tao say men must ejaculate just for procreation.Ejaculation drains males lifespan and power.Instead for women female ejaculation is beneficial they get healthier and stronger.Gentleman cultivate good values, love,serve, cherish and respect women.Thanks for good posts. Steve1Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-17158648682353504042016-01-04T12:50:01.488-05:002016-01-04T12:50:01.488-05:00Frank,
It depends on the couple and what the woma...Frank,<br /><br />It depends on the couple and what the woman in the relationship wants to do. The Female-led relationship is not the result of any particular kink or sexual practice, but of women's self expression and men's responsiveness to that expression. The challenge of any relationship is in a man earning the woman's trust and pleasing her; if offering her your commitment to a game of orgasm control achieves this, then more power to you, so to speak. However, if it only serves you and not her emotional interests, you need to listen to her and help create a game that serves her interests.<br /><br />The disciplines I suggest here are ideas for women to deal with common attitude problems among men in comical ways that allow them to maintain their emotional comfort zone, even though it positions the man outside of his. This dynamic is a model of a chivalrous relationship, and the pattern can be applied to many different scenarios. However, a punishment that takes place outside of any intimacy problem or function is not a punishment at all, but a hobby. <br /><br />Maybe the woman you're with has the same hobby, and then you can practice together. I give no advice on hobbies; only on how women can outsmart selfish men.<br /><br />Ms. Christina<br />Blanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-21599179883210986992016-01-01T13:01:04.788-05:002016-01-01T13:01:04.788-05:00Ms. Christina, do you think a girlfriend or wife s...Ms. Christina, do you think a girlfriend or wife should take control of a man's orgasms to make him want to please her even more? This control could range from always asking for permission to orgasm to locking him in a chastity device depending on how much self-control he has. The length of chaste time would depend on how well he is meeting her expectations or whatever her whim. Of course, he would be required to pleasure her anytime she desires either orally or with toys or by giving her body massages. Frankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15995876198585297953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-80403762258472492972015-09-30T19:09:32.504-04:002015-09-30T19:09:32.504-04:00“I think one flaw of patriarchy is that it suppres...“I think one flaw of patriarchy is that it suppresses natural female aggression and hides the reality of the vulnerability of males to being physically and psychologically overpowered by physically strong and psychologically dominant females. Do you think that male liberation from patriarchy and greater expression of female aggression toward males go hand in hand?”<br /><br />Nicely said. Patriarchy is based on the myth that men are not vulnerable, which leads to a lot of problems for men, including difficulty developing intimacy with others and especially with women. Female physical aggressiveness can certainly be helpful for women’s willingness to express themselves. It is also useful for increasing men’s awareness of their own vulnerability, thus bringing them “down to earth”. I’ve seen this tactic used by martial arts teachers to increase the teachability of their male students; when a female martial artist half their size uses proper technique to beat them in a fight rather than muscle mass, male students become better listeners in class. Also, the Abipon tribe from South America (Argentina) used a ritual where strong women would whip all the men in a village to keep male egos in check when a male leader had a male child and might be tempted to consolidate political power among male relatives. Femdom, similarly, employs female aggression towards men as a teaching tool for men and for women both that men are indeed vulnerable to women on many levels.<br /><br />However, many matriarchies of the past evolved and survived for a long time without any form of female physical aggression towards men. Women in these societies were revered simply because they would remove a man’s political power and social position if he defied them, or just deny him food. (Iroquois, Tchambuli, Mbuti, Semang). In fact, according to the work of Peggy Sanday, the only common denominators among all societies that are liberated from patriarchy (i.e. matriarchies), are female solidarity as the primary solidarity group, female self-sufficiency (financial/commercial success), and social awareness of men’s dependence on women for physical survival (usually due to circumstances).<br /><br />That being said, the one common factor that undermined most matriarchal societies, according to Peggy Sanday’s work, was the need for militarization of a society due to an overwhelming military assault (as happened to the Iroquois). Since this is the case, women’s acquisition of superior fighting skills in physical combat could change public perception or at least prevent matriarchal tendencies in our society from being thwarted during times of social upheaval. These skills certainly lead to increased respect for women in non-matriarchal societies (IRA, The Greeks in respect to the Amazons, Israel, the Pink Brigade in India). <br /><br />Either way, keep in mind that women’s collective success in a small, clan-based society is more easily noticed and recognized than women’s success in a large national or global society, where historical fact is easily lost by exclusion from literature and education. It is only men’s and women’s acknowledgement and public recognition of women’s successes, past and present, that has the power to change the public image of what a female-male relationship looks like. <br /><br />So perhaps women’s continued successes in all areas of life and men’s public recognition of them will create the cultural change we seek. Seven years ago this blog was really controversial. Now, it’s just eccentric, and the merits of female leadership are being written about in every major publication. Individual demonstrations really do have an accumulative, and exponential, effect.<br /><br />Thanks for writing.<br /><br />Ms. Black<br />Blanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-80740611572990941782015-09-30T19:08:06.916-04:002015-09-30T19:08:06.916-04:00Counterfactualist,
What a pleasure to hear from y...Counterfactualist,<br /><br />What a pleasure to hear from you. I enjoy your ideas and questions. I especially enjoy the idea of an online book club; although considering that there is such an abundance of “submissive” men looking for dominant women, it would be especially fun to develop an online dating community in conjunction with it. Mmm… I am learning to code these days so I will contemplate this. <br /><br />I understand now why Matriarchs often delegate so much of their political work to selected men; there is simply not enough time to do it all. If any fan of this blog is willing to do the bulk of the programming for a site like this, I can provide the design, the domain and hosting, and the monitoring. Let me know by email at ms.blanche.black@gmail.com.<br /><br />I agree with your suggestion that a social network for “submissive” men and “dominant” women outside of the BDSM community would facilitate things. However, as Elise Sutton demonstrates in her book, these terms can be used to refer to a relatively broad range of sexual practices. In my blog, I further expand this definition to include genuinely Feminist women and Pro-Feminist men as I repeatedly draw a connection between sexually acquiescing to women and practically acquiescing to them. So it would be important for such a social network to be defined by its social dynamics rather than a brand of sexual kink.<br /><br />“Unfortunately, virtually no pro bono organizations have mission statements supporting female supremacy. (Do you see this as a problem?)”<br /><br />I can probably build a website like this myself with enough time. However, let me clarify- a belief in female supremacy is not necessary for a society to follow female leadership, at least not according to history or anthropology; it only seems to be necessary for men who have been conditioned by patriarchy to think of themselves in competitive terms with women. In other words, support for a vision of a society consisting of assertive women and receptive men can come from those who think that women are equal in importance to men but that social structures need more female leadership and influence to counter-balance male input. For example, many organizations are currently pushing for an increase women leaders in government and business simply because the results are more economically successful (the Girl Effect, UNICEF, the APA, etc.)...<br />Blanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-30021269368020723662015-09-30T13:48:45.662-04:002015-09-30T13:48:45.662-04:00I think your recommendations to other women on how...I think your recommendations to other women on how to train and recondition males will, if followed properly in the way you instructed, liberate males from their egos and the expectations that society has of males to dominate women and to pursue their own self-interest to the exclusion of any other values and considerations. This will certainly free up space in the male mind to dedicate to supporting female leaders and their endeavors, not only in interpersonal relationships, but also in public spaces. But to what extent do you think this liberation needs to result from explicit aggression by women who exhibit female leadership behaviors? I think one flaw of patriarchy is that it suppresses natural female aggression and hides the reality of the vulnerability of males to being physically and psychologically overpowered by physically strong and psychologically dominant females. Do you think that male liberation from patriarchy and greater expression of female aggression toward males go hand in hand?<br /><br />Thank you very much for this blog. It is a valuable resource, and I am glad you created it for us all to share, and find it wonderful that women who agree with you can let the world know you are correct in your comments, as can men who are oppressed by society show solidarity with your transformative efforts. Your consciousnesss-raising project is marvelous.The Counterfactualisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12604624785209454309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-81197468516989746202015-09-30T13:48:14.936-04:002015-09-30T13:48:14.936-04:00And, although this is just an observation, I have ...And, although this is just an observation, I have noticed that - and many into Femdom have noticed this as well - there are many more openly submissive males than openly dominant women. This could be a function of patriarchal gender oppression, slut shaming, traditional religious beliefs, a lack of decent education and scholarly interest in matriarchy, a lack of glamorization of female leadership by the media (you never seen any television shows where men are enthusiastic to take orders from women, etc.), or a number of other things. But the fact remains that submissive males have difficulty - for whatever reason, it may be that they are undesirable, or they have yet to have read your website and internalized its teachings - finding dominant women, whereas all the dominant women seem to know each other. It would make sense for social networks of dominant women to let sincere males - the sort that you approve of - know where they are and can be found, so that normal socialization between female leaders and males who desire female leadership can occur. Even if it were in the form of a volunteer opportunity through a non-profit organization with an explicitly pro-female-superiority viewpoint. Unfortunately, virtually no pro bono organizations have mission statements supporting female supremacy. (Do you see this as a problem?)<br /><br />The Counterfactualisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12604624785209454309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-85897969057729093462015-09-30T13:47:48.101-04:002015-09-30T13:47:48.101-04:00Ms. Christina:
I would like to commend you for ha...Ms. Christina:<br /><br />I would like to commend you for having the courage to maintain this website, as it enables feminist women to share their views and explain how they are consistent with a realistic belief in female superiority and a reasonable desire for female supremacy. Only through virtual networks like the comments section here and real networks of female leaders can a societal transformation toward female rule occur. Obviously, men can assist in this transformation by reading websites like this one, participating in these feminist-woman-led discussions, and expressing that they desire female rule. They can also recognize that you are right and accept that their need to submit to female leadership is natural and healthy.<br /><br />You provide a lot of reading material for a male who is interested in cultivating the attitudes that a female leader like yourself would find attractive, and a smart male would read both your website posts and your recommendations, and adjust his behavior accordingly. But I do wonder if there is something missing from your generous provision of literary recommendations and virtual connectivity. Have you ever considered leading a RL group for people interested in female-led relationships, or following your teachings? What about an online book club with directed readings? It seems that your fans, both male and female, could learn more from you directly.The Counterfactualisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12604624785209454309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-79982977539475475272015-07-26T19:28:56.827-04:002015-07-26T19:28:56.827-04:00You make a good argument, Frank. Thank you for you...You make a good argument, Frank. Thank you for your encouragement.<br /><br />Ms. ChristinaBlanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-40105264345529026812015-07-25T14:15:56.603-04:002015-07-25T14:15:56.603-04:00Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedul...Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to reply to me, Ms. Christina. I don't know how you find the time to be a successful manager at work, a talented painter and writer, and manage all your other responsibilities. You are an amazing woman.<br />I am happy that you are considering writing a book in the future. I have read quite a few other female leadership blogs and yours is head and shoulders above the rest. Your perspective is unique because you explain why it is necessary for men to serve women and the benefits they can derive from it. In fact, you understand men's motivations, needs, and desires better than most men do. I don't even know how that is possible. <br />By writing a book, you could help more women exert there power and influence over men to make their lives easier and more fulfilling. Men could take care of the more routine and physical tasks at home and at the office. Women could use their superior intellect, creativity, and self-discipline to pursue challenging work and hobbies that they enjoy. Men would enjoy the approval of women and their ability to please them. It would be a shame to not benefit others with your knowledge and insight, Ms. Christina. Even if you just collected the writings in your blog and sent them to several publishers for consideration. Sooner or later, a publisher will recognize what an interesting and talented writer you are and offer you advice and encouragement. Look how many men and women want you to continue writing your blog. Thank you for your book references, Ms. Christina. I have much more to learn.<br /><br />Respectfully,<br /><br />FrankFrankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15995876198585297953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-30799986473798823692015-07-23T16:23:02.879-04:002015-07-23T16:23:02.879-04:00Frank,
Nice to hear from you. I'm so glad to ...Frank,<br /><br />Nice to hear from you. I'm so glad to hear how much my writing has helped you. Remember, listening to women is not only wise socially, it's necessary for your emotional fulfillment as a man to learn how to identify with women and be useful to them.<br /><br />I do not have much time to blog anymore, although one day I may write a book. It would be good to immerse yourself in the writing of others with similar viewpoints to my own, such as those authors listed in the blog reading list. Societies of Peace by Heidi Goettner-Abendroth may be a bit dry, but its good. Also The Amazons by Adrienne Mayor, Transforming a Rape Culture, by Buchwald/Fletcher/Roth, and Why Men Love Bitches are all similar writers. There are tons of books being written in this fashion now, and I'm sure you will find some inspiration among them.<br /><br />I will let you know if I wind up writing a book or another blog.<br /><br />Ms. ChristinaBlanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-84886014001467768802015-07-19T12:31:51.675-04:002015-07-19T12:31:51.675-04:00Hello Ms. Christina. I hope you are enjoying your ...Hello Ms. Christina. I hope you are enjoying your summer. Your teaching about male selfishness has been invaluable to me. I am learning from your instruction to serve others more, especially women. It has helped me professionally and also in my social life. I received a small promotion at work recently and I hope to receive a larger one next year. I enjoy helping my female manager and coworkers. They are smarter and more efficient than me, so I try to learn from them as much as possible. They set great examples for me to follow. You will always be superior to me Ms. Christina, because you are a woman of course, but also because you are my Teacher and the Teacher is always greater than the student. I have reread this blog many times. Do you have any other blogs that I may learn from? I know you have stopped writing on this one, but I need your instruction, Ms. Christina. I am just one of the many men you have helped lead a more fulfilling and successful life. I would love nothing more to sit at your pretty feet and caress them as you instruct and correct me. Nothing would be more fulfilling than to serve and please you, my beautiful and wise Teacher.<br /><br />Respectfully,<br />FrankFrankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15995876198585297953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-34523847468258026112015-01-04T20:26:17.913-05:002015-01-04T20:26:17.913-05:00Anonymous,
Actually I appreciate your observation...Anonymous,<br /><br />Actually I appreciate your observation about libraries. I have worked in several library systems as a professional librarian, and currently manage a very large collection in an urban area. <br /><br />I have similarly noticed a dearth of literature on Feminism or Pro-Feminist Sociology in suburban public libraries, despite the abundance of works published even over the last 15 years. <br /><br />However, urban libraries seem to be a good deal better for accessing these titles. You can also try the Interlibrary loan option, available at many public libraries, to borrow these titles from local university libraries which are likely to have them for their Women's Studies programs.<br /><br />Nevertheless, I purchase most of my books on Amazon.<br /><br />Ms.BlackBlanche Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961534699759604152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-60908265362861128382015-01-04T12:54:42.960-05:002015-01-04T12:54:42.960-05:00You are right Ms. Black. Women are the natural lea...You are right Ms. Black. Women are the natural leaders in relationships, families, business, government, and education. When a man resists this fact, it becomes a 600 pound gorilla in his mind that he wastes so much time and energy fighting and thinking about.<br />It is best to accept it, do what a woman tells you to do ASAP, and become more productive and happier in all areas of your life. Thanks for enlightening me. I just wanted to let you know how helpful your blog has been. I went online and found three of the books you recommended and reserved them as they become available. The Guy's Guide to Feminism wasn't even listed. I was amazed to see how few books on feminism there were in a group of approx. 20 libraries. It is surprising that women are assuming leadership roles as quickly as they are with so few resources to guide them. You don't have to post my response in your blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-45883289558485077102015-01-04T00:36:38.826-05:002015-01-04T00:36:38.826-05:00Nothing gets a man's attention faster and more...Nothing gets a man's attention faster and more powerfully than denial of the sexual pleasure and release he has been accustomed to receiving. If a woman wants her man to be more attentive to her needs and desires, then she needs to tell him in no uncertain terms what her expectations are and the consequence of not meeting those expectations.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-6200605653021440282014-11-23T01:11:10.680-05:002014-11-23T01:11:10.680-05:00Women are so clearly the Superior Sex it is ridicu...Women are so clearly the Superior Sex it is ridiculous not to admit it. Men need discipline and obedience training from Women to be of any use. It is th e place of Men to serve,respect, and obey Women, it is why we existStevenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-26074886470132668262014-11-22T22:47:12.849-05:002014-11-22T22:47:12.849-05:00We Men need discipline from Women who are clearly ...We Men need discipline from Women who are clearly the Superior Sex. Men should be subservient and obedient to Women. A smart Man obeys all Women immediately.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-3675779492721536062014-06-14T14:56:16.087-04:002014-06-14T14:56:16.087-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-17854392762127799112012-06-10T12:30:50.417-04:002012-06-10T12:30:50.417-04:00You are right on Richard! I know a man who longs f...You are right on Richard! I know a man who longs for this transcendence. He actually feels like a slave to his ego but every woman he encounters is so ready to be dominated by him that he gets bored and frustrated. I can see the benefits of these techniques when done in love just as in a parent-child relationship. Yes a woman should not be a mother but for men who have certain mommy issues this may be quite therapeutic and will help them learn to really love a woman.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6803152773256258392.post-90469229385073268822012-06-10T12:14:53.381-04:002012-06-10T12:14:53.381-04:00Jimmy you would be surprised how many men actually...Jimmy you would be surprised how many men actually WANT this from a woman. They are bored to death of weak simple women and enjoy the challenge. Just because your ego is too fragile to handle a dominant woman doesn't make this wrong. To each their own.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com